The power of sticky notes

Dear Family and Friends,
Well, there was nothing too out of the ordinary this week EXCEPT THAT IT WAS AWESOME.
I know you are all probably sick of hearing that but whatever :P
We had lots of "it's New Years so let's set goals" kind of lessons and it was really convenient because basically what we do is help other people set goals for themselves. And it was amazing!!! It's like YES LET'S SET SOME GOALS:
Examples:
Found a less active who we'd never met as she got home from work. We had like 5 minutes because it was almost 9 but we decided to have a really quick lesson with her while we had the chance. We asked what she wanted her goals to be and she said, "Well...this year I want to go back to church and get sealed with my husband in the temple. But I need you to help me."
o.O
Great! Ask the missionaries, we can help you!
In another lesson we had, we sat down with a member and asked her what her goals were. She told us that she didn't want to set goals because only God knew what was coming for her and she was just going to see how life treated her. We said that that was true, God did know what we wanted to give her. However, she could know what it was. Then we explained what revelation was--how it was God speaking to us. It's that simple. We told her that if she sought revelation from God He would tell her what her goals would be through her thoughts and feelings and then asked her to seek revelation to know what her New Years goals should be.
That was one of the lessons where you speak and you are surprised by what you say and learn as much as the person you are teaching. It felt so great :)  #D&C50:22
Other highlights:
~Contacted a guy who worships yoga and it was awesome!
~Went on exchange to BAYONNE!!! I'M GOING HOOOMMEEEE. It was a really strange experience because I served in Bayonne a YEAR ago. ew.
~Hermana So'oto lead the area and she DID AMAZING. I am so happy. And it was even on New Years.
~Fasted successfully! Didn't complain once! (normally I just die on fast Sundays)
Happy New Year! Good luck setting your goals! I think Moroni 10:32 is a pretty good goal ;)
Love you! Choose the right and know what you stand for!!
Love,
Hna Reed
P.S. We had a lot of miracles from sticky notes, so that's the reason for the title. Or actually I just wanted to be really random :)

Dear Family,
It was great to see and talk to you on Christmas and I have to say I am MINDBLOWN by how much everyone has grown. So congrats of growing. I'm really impressed :)
We did a lot of contacting this week for Christmas, and it was really cool because you could feel the Christmas spirit. Everyone's just happier.
We also ate a lot. And I had this weird thing happen where after one meal I couldn't eat another one! OH NO I'M DOOMED HOW WILL I EVER EAT FOUR MEALS IN A ROW IF I FILL UP AFTER ONE. For that reason Christmas was a little painful :)
I read Alma 5 this week. HOLY MOLY that's a call to repentance :) Read it, it's a good New Year's goals chapter.
Other highlights:
~Getting jukes twice on Christmas ;? (What? You have plans with your family? Why??)
~Ellis Island again :)
~Getting hugged and besito'd by a hilarious Dominican guy...you just can't stop 'em :) He's the owner of a store and we stop by ever once in a while. He said he's going to invite us over to dinner with his wife! New investigator/morir so ñando (sounds weird but it's a dominican drink :)  ) HERE I COME
~Our Honduran investigator made us homemade baleadas! Those things are so good.
Love you! Choose the right and know what you stand for! Happy New Years! Hope you all have fun staying up to the wee hours of the morning cuz I'm going to bed at 10:30 jeje
Con cariño,
Hermana Reed

Look at these intense Christmas decorations!!

This is Maria Jose :) She's the little daughter of our cute Honduran family.

Last Week in Morristown

This week was crazy!!! And cold! My companion has this strange problem where she doesn't need a coat or tights--and then I'm like well I don't need them either! Well, I learned my lesson. I'm going to wear a coat now.
I have no idea how to approach telling about my week...so bullet point time!!!!
~Had "Traditions with the Taggarts". It was great. Involved a lot of bad bell ringing and also food. The Christmastime mission stuff has begun.
~Had the Christmas Fireside! Aka all missionaries perform with really bad acting!!! But it was great because EVERYONE I LOVE CAME!!! Meaning Nicolas and everyone from Newark and from Morristown and Short Hills and it was so great. We were shepherds and I had a stick and Sister Brown had a turban.
~Had the best MLC ever!!! A Sevently came and told us about the "faith ladder", among other things.

It was awesome. And it was my last MLC because this is my last transfer of being a Sister Training Leader. And I am TIRED!

~I'm training!

~Also I have been transferred. ONE AND DONE! Again!! Baaah! Literally the worst. Also I will be doubled into my next area...for the second time in a row. Luckily I think this will be the last time!!!

~Trainer's meeting! What was funny was all of their companions went to our area. So we had four missionaries following Sister Brown out the door. She was a full-blown mother with all of those missionaries in tow :) It was great.

It has been a crazy week. I really am going to miss this area. We have worked hard here. And so much is happening--people preparing for baptism, the Garcia family, Christmas, and lots of finding.

Love you all! Remember to choose the right and know what you stand for :)

Sister Reed

Nicolas and Hno Montoya!

Christmas time!!!

Dear Family,
I am so excited because it is finally Christmas time!!!
Reasons why I love Christmas:
~Everyone is happy and nice
~You get to sing Christmas songs
~Santa Claus times
~the Christmas Initiative the Church has going
~Hot cocoa and treats
~Everyone has work and school off and are at home
~You think of Christ all the time
So we contact with these great Christmas cards and it's basically the bomb .com.
On Wednesday, we had our first snowfall of the year. Thus was ordered the first no driving day of the year. As our area is ridiculously large with zero buses, this is a bigger problem than it was last year in Bayonne. So my dear companion called people all day until we were able to find someone to take us to an appointment we had. Success!
I also had my second Turkey Bowl of my mission. I think this one was more successful than last year because now I actually know how to play football! Go me!
Only one Thanksgiving dinner this year but we came out just as full. I honestly have no idea what has happened to my eating abilities-I used to be able to eat 4 meals in a row back in Kearny and now one knocks me out! WHAT KIND OF MISSIONARY AM I???
Also I met Santa Claus on exchange this week :)

Highlight of the Week: Nelson came to church for the third Sunday in a row!!

We had a really spiritual lesson last night with a part-member family. They were really mad with each other--why won't you go to church--I'm going to move out--it's my salvation not yours--what do you consider failure...it was pretty heated. The whole lesson everyone was angry and yelling and finally at the end I bore a very personal testimony to the family. And with that experience, the whole spirit in the room changed. For the first time I felt peace. That's how you know God is there: peace. The dad offered the closing prayer and he prayed for me and my family :) It just about melted my heart.

This is why I love being a missionary!!

Remember to choose the right and know what you stand for! Love you all!!!

Sister Reed

Awkward moments and tongue-twisters

Dear Family and Friends,
This week we had tons of miracles!
First of all we decided to contact one of the potentials on our list. We dropped by his house and our conversation went something like this:
Us: "Hey, you've met missionaries like us before, right?"
Him: "Yes, and I told them I wanted to be baptized."
Us: "...o.O"
We don't hear that every day! It was pretty fantastic. He hasn't been baptized in ANY church (unheard of for Hispanics, they're usually baptized Catholic as babies) so that probably is a big motivator for him. The great part about it is that he's ready and wants to make a change and the Lord led him to us. Life is pretty sweet that way :)
Also his name is Abelisario. I feel proud of myself for being able to say/spell it. (although it's not as bad as a word I learned yesterday: descorozonar. As in "yo the descorozonare". It means to pull out your heart :P)
Last week we had one set for baptism. This week we have three. So mind-blowing! It's crazy because you can work and work and nothing happens or you can work and work and things happen and it just depends on God. Frustrating sometimes but at the same time it's a really good lesson in leading to be dependent on Him!
I also had two exchanges this week. This always makes my weeks disappear at the speed of light. One of my exchanges was with a Filipina sister who got her driver's license. Love her to death, but driving with her was a very different experience. Fortunately, we only almost died about two times and the rest she was super careful. Yay life!
Funny experience of the week!
We were at a less active's family's house the other day and the kids opened the door. We walk in and neither of the parents or the grandma is there. So we wait while all the kids play like crazy monkeys and finally the three year-old comes up to us and asks us to go with her to find her mom.
So we're like ok and she takes upstairs and we follow her. First she opens the door of her mom's bedroom where her mom is dressing.
So that is awkward.
She then proceeds to the next door, which was the bathroom, and opens that one, where her grandma is going to the bathroom. So after that we decided it was safer to wait downstairs.
And then the mom did come down eventually. And she was so intoxicated I don't think she remembers any of it!!!
Oh, that missionary life.
Last of all, Hermana Brown and I have been battling out to see which is the most correct: "que bien" or "que bueno". Apparently they're both correct but I just know "que bueno" is better.
And I changed my mind. I actually want a Honduran accent. We have so many Hondurans in our area and their accent is so cool!
The Gospel is true! Love you all! Remember to choose the right and know what you stand for!!
Love,
Sister Reed

That one time we got locked out of our apartment and had to climb up our neighbor's fire escape.

La familia Garcia! Pday Burger King trip! They are the best! Yes and I realize my face is only halfway in it. It's harder than it looks!

It's that time again...winter

Dear Family,
It'll be a quickie today because one of our menos activos called us and asked us to come over and see them! I have no problem with people setting appointments with us although I would prefer it not to be on pday ;)
Two exchanges this week and I went with a brand new missionary on the first one. I love new missionaries--they are full of faith. The second exchange I went to Sparta which SURPRISE if you thought New Jersey was all city you're wrong because Sparta is like wilderness! We drove into the "mountains" and I felt for only the 2nd or 3rd time on my mission the feeling of carsickness. That's one benefit of no mountains--I am a much happier passenger.
On Thursday it SNOWED!!! First snow of the year. Not sure if it counts because it was more like water snow but it was very much snow. IT HAS BEGUN. The snow is here. #shovelingisgreatservice :)
We dropped/got dropped by our Catholic investigator. It was bound to happen. But still it was a toughie. :(
We decided to teach Elmer, a recent convert, inside a house because normally it's on his porch. WE decided that it was no bueno with the cold. So we walked to another recent convert's house and lo and behold, she has visitors! So we taught them. They live in a part of New Jersey I've never heard of before, and it was really great. Poor Elmer though. We never teach him.
Well, love you all, remember the Gospel is true no matter how many investigators drop you!!! Remember to choose the right and know what you stand for!
Love,
Sister Reed

Now we kinda know what we're doing!

Dear Family,
It's Hit and Miss time again!
Hit: We taught a new investigator named John and he said he'd go to church!
Miss: He didn't go to church.
Hit: But he still is really awesome so he probably will next week!
Hit: He's reading in the Book of Mormon!

Miss: I had to give a training in District Meeting.
Hit: I got to use a story from Where the Red Fern Grows!

Hit: I'm getting better at soccer from practicing with hispanics!
Miss: I'm still really bad at soccer in comparison to them.

Hit: We found a secret less-active family that lives in the woods between two freeways!
Hit: I got to jump on a trampoline in order to blend in with the natives (aka the children)
Miss: They didn't come to church.
Hit: But one day they will!

Hit: We got to teach Elmer, a recent convert!
Miss: We got home ridiculously late ;'(

Miss: We didn't have any appointments on Friday in the day.
Hit: WE called a random member family and they invited us to come over right then!
Hit: They are awesome!

Hit: We got two investigators at church! They have been taught for like 10 years by missionaries!
Hit: They might actually be getting married finally!
Miss: Won't put a date on it!

Hit: WE taught a lesson with a cucumber and pickles!
Hit: The investigator explained the metaphor even better than we did (all of us are cucumber and we need to become pickles. The Spirit is what helps us become pickles. To have the Spirit we need to keep the commandments. Cucumbers die after two or three days. Pickles don't die! Most of that was our investigator telling us).

Miss: It got cold!
Hit: I got to wear all my winter gear!
Miss: It was still cold!

I love you all! Keep choosing the right! I know the Church is true! I know we can find happiness from following the Gospel. Real happiness. Not lame happiness.

Love,
Sister Reed

Mo-town!

Sister Brown and I!

WEeeeeeeeeeeeeeelllll I done been transferred! My new companion and I have been doubled in to MORRISTOWN!!
What!!!
Ok I kinda saw it coming. I figured it would be a great sister training leader area so I guessed we would go there. I also TOTALLY called who my new companion would be, who is Sister Brown! Sister Brown came out with me! We are the same age in the mission and what is even better that we were in the same college ward at BYU!
WEIRD.
But good.
So this first week has been pretty crazy moving out, moving in, seeing all the appointments we have and calling everyone who has lived or lives in the entire Morristown area. Believe me it has been completely crazy!! In the last 5 days we have:
~called bajillions of people
~sent bajillions of texts
~taught lessons
~contacted like crazy
~planned for hours on Halloween
~gone to ze church
~directed a choir (did NOT see that one coming)
~asked the elders in the ward for help with everything.
~had three different companions
I feel like I've been going 1000% for the last few days to et the area going. Sister Brown is a hard worker and we are doing work :)
In addition to that since we are so close to the mission home we get all the sisters who don't have companions due to the fact that they are going home early, have a companion coming in from Temple Square, waiting for their parents to pick them up, etc. So in the last few days we had two different quadpanionships and a trio. Due to this we had to borrow a bed from the elders and also food because we didn't have any. Thank goodness for charity for the poor :)
So I would describe Morristown as a ritzy areas/sketchy areas. We got it all! It's pretty great :)
We've met a few families since we've been here. One is the Garcia family which is a super great family. They are from Honduras (side note: TONS of people here are from Honduras isn't that great!!) and two of them are recent converts! We like them a lot, although they are having some issues with friends. When your friends want to smoke, you want to smoke :( They are so great, thug, and we're pretty excited to get to know them better.
Hermano Carvajal is our ward mission leader and the thing I remember most about him is that you're not supposed to have Jersey pizza with water. It has to be soda. Other than that though he's great!
Lastly but not leastly we were able to have Elmer, who was baptized last Sunday by the sisters who were here, confirmed this week! He got up and bore his testimony afterwards. I've only known him for 2 days but it was seriously the best thing of my life!
I love you all! Thanks for all the love, support, and prayers. Remember to choose the right and know what you stand for!!!
Love,
Sister Reed

This is Gloria! We taught her English in Short Hills.